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Boldness Bootcamp

Is it possible to go from doing all.the.things for others

to confidently asking for what you want,

saying no and

stop needlessly apologizing

without feeling guilty?

You are a smart, successful woman who is ready to stop pleasing everyone but yourself.

You want to…

be able to say no to requests from others.

stop apologizing for things that aren’t your fault.

have time for yourself.

not feel guilty when you do the above.

 

You have been told that you should just stop doing all.the.things, find time for self-care and not to feel bad doing for yourself.

But you don’t want others to think you are selfish.

You are so busy, you don’t have the time for that ‘relaxing’ bubble bath.

You feel guilty when you aren’t taking care of everyone else’s needs.

 

You try to stop saying ‘yes’ to every request.

You read blogs on ways to say no.

You try to ignore the shame you feel when you can’t do something for someone.

You think that some day you will have time for yourself when you finish ‘just this one thing’.

 

Yet you fail miserably…

You have the words so say no, but feel too uncomfortable to use them.

You feel so bad saying no that you eventually give in.

Finishing ‘just this one thing’ only leads ‘two more things’.

 

You try yet again…

You practice your confidence affirmations in the mirror.

You try to convince yourself that doing all.the.things for others isn’t what is stressing you out.

You try to believe that others who aren’t stressed just don’t have the responsibilities you do.

 

And you just want to give up trying, because obviously everyone else knows something you don’t.

 

As you are trying to get everything ready for tomorrow, way past when you should be asleep, you wonder

What is it that you are missing?

How can you stop this cycle of madness of taking on too much for everyone else?

When will you ever not feel so stressed out?

Will you ever be able say no without feeling so guilty?

 

While others…

Are tucked up in their beds fast asleep

Saying no to requests that don’t fit in with their time and energy.

Aren’t apologizing for every little thing that goes wrong.

Don’t feel guilty taking time for themselves.

 

You don’t need to feel this way anymore.

 

I have developed a system that takes away – 

The need to apologize for everything that doesn’t make others happy. 

The problem of feeling like you don’t deserve to say no.

The struggle with feeling guilty about taking time for you. 

 

Boldness Bootcamp takes you from doing all.the.things for others to confidently asking for what you want, saying no and stop needlessly apologizing without feeling guilty.  

 

 

Why should you give a rat’s patoot what I say?

Hi, I’m Dr. Jac

As a reformed ‘good girl’, I am passionate about the need for women  to stop being so damn nice and give themselves permission to live the life they want.

I am the founder of the Boldness Academy where confidence and assertiveness coaching come together to help smart, successful women gain the skills to speak their mind, say no and stop worrying what people think about them - without feeling guilty. I use my background as a psychologist plus the science of positive psychology to help others morph from people-pleaser to boldness badass. 

When I find a bit of down time you will find me discussing the oddities of life with my husband and kiddos or reading mystery books with a glass of red wine surrounded by our 5 animals and any foster dogs we may have. If you are dying to know a little more about me find out more here.

I know what you are thinking…

 

This won’t work for me because –

I feel so guilty when I say no.

I don’t want to come across as (another name for) a donkey.

Taking care of people is what I do.

I’ve tried so many times, I should just suffer in silence.

How is this any different from the advice I have already gotten about “just be confident in yourself”.  

 

Let me show you how this is different…

 

Boldness

Bootcamp

Others
First of it’s kind for people who still want to be kind. “One size fits all.”
Based on the science of change. “I did it so you can do it too.”
Small, easy steps. Overwhelming

This is what is included in this life changing program:

 

Beliefs

You need to feel like your needs are important too, only right now you can’t imagine putting your needs ahead of others. We work on giving yourself permission to look at your needs and making them part of how you make decisions for your life.

Bold Lines

You may have heard that you can’t fill from an empty cup. This means being able to say no to those things that suck your time and energy. We practice how we can actually turn down some requests that are made of us.

Responsibility

As someone who wants to be kind and helpful, you take on a lot of responsibility that isn’t yours. We cover what you are responsible for and what you are not and to not apologize for what isn’t in your sphere of responsibility.

The Feels

Because you are a kind, caring person you feel guilt and maybe shame when you don’t do everything that is asked of you. You worry that people won’t like you if say no. We help you find ways to overcome those feelings of guilt so you can be confident in saying no.

Bonuses:

Live

For the first time ever, Boldness Bootcamp is being offered Live! Coaching happens during a live daily Zoom meeting so we can answer questions and interact during the calls.

Support

Have additional questions, want to know you are not alone in trying to make this change? We have a free supportive community available to you 24/7 to interact with other participants and myself.

Lifetime Access

You will receive lifetime access to the Boldness Bootcamp. You can repeat the program as many times as you need to increase your comfort level. Access also includes any updates and future additions to the program.

24 Hour Bonus

Out of time

$37

 

Don’t miss out on all that Boldness Bootcamp has to offer:

Beliefs

You need to feel like your needs are important too, only right now you can’t imagine putting your needs ahead of others. We work on giving yourself permission to look at your needs and making them part of how you make decisions for your life. So you can feel confident in asking for what you need.

Bold Lines

You may have heard that you can’t fill from an empty cup. This means being able to say no to those things that suck your time and energy. We practice how we can actually turn down some requests that are made of us. So you are able to say no to requests that will overwhelm you.

Responsibility

As someone who wants to be kind and helpful, you take on a lot of responsibility that isn’t yours. We cover what you are responsible for and what you are not and to not apologize for what isn’t in your sphere of responsibility. So you aren’t needlessly apologizing to everyone.

The Feels

Because you are a kind, caring person you feel guilt and maybe shame when you don’t do everything that is asked of you. You worry that people won’t like you if say no. We help you find ways to overcome those feelings of guilt so you can be confident in saying no.

The Bonuses:

Live

For the first time ever, Boldness Bootcamp is being offered Live! Coaching happens during a live daily Zoom meeting so we can answer questions and interact during the calls.

Support

Have additional questions, want to know you are not alone in trying to make this change? We have a free supportive community available to you 24/7 to interact with other participants and myself.

Lifetime Access

You will receive lifetime access to the Boldness Bootcamp. You can repeat the program as many times as you need to increase your comfort level. Access also includes any updates and future additions to the program.

24 Hour Bonus

Out of time

$37

 

It is possible to go from doing all.the.things for others to confidently asking for what you want, saying no and stop needlessly apologizing without feeling guilty.

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